Paert 3

Another important question I try to ask is if she usually has to get up early or not. Of course I don’t come across so obvious. “What time does your job force you to come in? My boss is so cool he doesn’t care”. Of course the purpose of this question is to see if she’s open to hanging out and having a late night. You’d ask a question like this more than halfway through the first part of the date to get a vibe on if she likes where things are headed on the date. If she hints that she has to get up mad early the next morning for blah blah blah reason then banging that night is probably a very low percent (not impossible). If she’s a go in late work a little later person that’s another thing. At this point it would be an excellent chance to ask the most important Date Question ever… You did read my post on that over here right!!!! Now for the important thing at no point on your first venue should talking about sex ever come up. I don’t care if when you met her she blew you in the bathroom and let you put it in her ass. Do not bring up sex in anyway shape of form. I don’t care if she complains how her ex boyfriend couldn’t get it up and she needed to masturbate 8 times a day or that she wishes she could find I guy who would ATM her all the time. Don’t fall for it. Plane and simple deliberate sex talk is the fastest way to turn of your date at the first venue. It’s ok to flirt sure but if you come up as just wanting sex that night you’ll be surprised at how fast you’ll find out the bird just wanted dinner that night and only one of you will be getting what they want. Also avoid physical contact or touching her. You’re knees accidently knocking is cool and if you make her laugh hard enough she reaches over and touches you also a great sign. Again the first venue is the hardest part of the date. On your end you need to master talking without saying anything at all. I know I’ve done work when by the first part of the date the girl stops and says, “Oh my god I just realized I’ve spent so much time talking about me I hardly know anything about you”. That’s because I’m doing it right. For you it’s not so much about the words coming out of her mouth but it’s about the other “other” meaning behind it. Women=subtext. Build comfort, make her feel relaxed and in the element.Have a great conversation and enjoy your meal giving her no reason not to go to with you to the next spot.

Part 1

In part 1 we got ready for the date with some prep work. You showed up to your first venue of choice and amazingly she didn’t sober up and flake! She sits down and orders her drink it comes she takes a sip, ok now it’s an official date. Now let’s get our mind right. The fact that she even showed up on this date means she’s open to fucking you (if all goes well). The date is divided into two halves this is the first half where you try to find out if she’s DTF that night or not. On the first half of the date at your first venue it’s all about implying and information finding. It’s a tangled dance of getting to know your date, building comfort, and trying to be sexually attractive all at once without making it look like an interview (which it totally is) It’s like watching Dominic Cooper in The Devil’s Double. On the surface its an actor playing two part but if you look deeper the actor is playing three part since one of those parts involves him “re-acting” as the body double pretending to be the original (got that). Obviously this is the toughest part of the date and where I’d say 90% of guys blow it. Remember one or two drinks max with your meal, this isn’t the “drinking part of the date”.

Part 2

First don’t come on too strong or eager to get to know her. Warm it up, “How was your day”, “did you have any trouble finding the whole in the wall sushi joint”. Really mundane day to day questions. Let her settle into you and the environment have a few drinks talk about her busy day wearing a pencil skirt working oh so hard on the Hill. As you get past the information part of the first venue where she works, how long she’s been in the area, where she likes to hangout, blah blah blah. We try to fact find if we can fuck tonight or what. Questions like, “Do you and your roommate get along well” will give you so much information. Listen to the answer, “Yeah, She’s totally cool, she’s my best friend, we’re practically sisters” means her roommate is a girl that wont freak out or judge her if she bring a strange guy home from a first date.”Yeah, she’s cool but she’s never there, like tonight she spends most of her time at her boyfriends” translates to my roommate is in relationship getting regular sex while I’m stuck in first date purgatory. But I haven’t been banged in a while so play your cards right and we have the place all to ourselves. “She’s a total bitch, who’s anal about every little thing” means if it goes down tonight probably not a good idea to go back to her place. Basically try to pick up on the vibe of the reaction of her roommate if you go back.